Episode 75

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5th Jun 2025

IVF or Holistic Fertility First? The Framework Every Woman Needs Before Starting Support

Facing the decision between IVF and a holistic fertility approach? Wondering whether to pursue both or in what order? This episode is your essential guide!

👋 Hi, I’m Dr. Aumatma, a holistic fertility doctor with nearly two decades of experience guiding couples through one of the most critical crossroads of their fertility journey: What to do when you’re not conceiving—yet.

In this deep-dive episode, you’ll learn the exact framework I use in my clinic to help women and couples decide whether IVF, holistic care, or an integrative “both-and” approach is best for them. We’ll cut through fear-based advice, family pressure, and misinformation—and get to what really works based on your age, diagnosis, history, and timing.

💡 This episode is perfect for you if you’ve been:

  • TTC for months or years with no clear answers
  • Told to “go straight to IVF” without understanding your other options
  • Trying holistic methods, but not sure if you’ve actually done it right
  • Feeling overwhelmed, emotionally drained, or unsure of what to do next

🌿 Here’s what we’ll cover:

00:00 – Introduction: Why this decision is so important

02:12 – What “real” holistic fertility support actually means (it’s not DIY supplements!)

06:47 – IVF basics: what it does, what it doesn’t

09:30 – When IVF is necessary (blocked tubes, severe male factor, genetic risks)

14:45 – When holistic first makes the most sense (PCOS, endo, RPL, unexplained)

18:12 – Why “doing both” often gets the best results

22:20 – The 5-Part Decision Framework:

  1️⃣ Your diagnosis

  2️⃣ Your age + time sensitivity

  3️⃣ Past treatments

  4️⃣ Emotional & financial bandwidth

  5️⃣ Your values and desired experience

30:08 – Real client case studies & what we learned

38:00 – Final thoughts: Making the right call for you


🧬 Why this matters:

This decision impacts not just whether you get pregnant—but how, how long it takes, how much it costs, and how your health and emotions hold up along the way.

Remember: There is no universal answer. But there is a right answer for you. This video will help you find it.


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About the Podcast

Egg Meets Sperm
Because Fertility takes TWO.
Egg Meets Sperm: Because Fertility Takes Two.

Attention: Women and couples in their 30s & 40s, CEOs, high-achieving badasses. If you're struggling to conceive, there is likely a reason. On Egg Meets Sperm, Dr. Aumatma interviews leading experts in fertility & wellness to help you on your journey to parenthood.
Starting Season 3: Dr. Aumatma will also offer a short, informative masterclass. If you want to get answers to your burning questions, send them here: https://www.speakpipe.com/EggMeetsSpermPodcast

This podcast is for you if:
* You are a BADASS - which also means you're a high-achiever, sometimes with a tendency towards wanting control, being a "boss" and carrying the world on your shoulders
* "infertility" makes you feel powerless and hopeless
* You're not sure there's anything you can do to help get your pregnant
* You are seeking alternatives to IVF, IUI, and Ovulation induction
* Your hormones are all over the place
* You have been diagnosed with PCOS, Endometriosis, Unexplained infertility
* You've suffered from Pregnancy loss and were told it's normal
* You and your partner are a power couple that wants to bring an incredible child into this world
* You are into natural & holistic approaches
* You want to do everything in your power to get pregnant
* You have experienced a loss and are ready to take your power back

Let's GO! Let's get you FertileAF so that you can have the family you dream of!

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Aumatma Simmons