Episode 128

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12th Jan 2026

Why IVF Fails: The Labs Doctors Ignore, The Truth About Egg Donors & Why Men Matter in Fertility

Why do so many IVF cycles fail — even when doctors say everything looks “fine”? 🤔

In this honest, eye-opening conversation, we dive deep into what’s actually happening behind the scenes of infertility, IVF failure, hormone imbalances, and overlooked male factors.

Joining me in this episode is Mary Fusillo, RN, BSN, MS, Founder & C.E.O.

Mary M. Fusillo, RN, BSN, MS, is the founder and CEO of Family Solutions International. Mary was introduced to the area of Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility while facing her own challenge of having children. What started as a way to have an active career while still staying present as a "mom" to her twins, she started The Donor Solution in 2007, 3 Sisters Surrogacy in 2012, and The Fertility Consultants in 2020, all focusing on alternative ways to building the family of your dreams under the big umbrella of Family Solutions International.

If you’ve ever felt confused by conflicting medical advice — “diet doesn’t matter,” “just try another IVF cycle,” “your labs are normal” — this episode is for you.

We discuss:

  1. Why fertility labs are often misunderstood or ignored
  2. How low estrogen can completely sabotage IVF success
  3. The hard truth about egg quality, ovarian reserve, and age
  4. Why men are still not properly tested — and how sperm impacts embryos, pregnancy, and outcomes
  5. The emotional resistance around egg donation and what science says about epigenetics
  6. Why more IVF cycles aren’t always the answer
  7. How natural hormone support can restore fertility health
  8. The importance of truth-telling in fertility care

This episode challenges the idea that infertility is “just a woman’s issue” and sheds light on how sperm quality, lifestyle, smoking, stress, and male health play a massive role in conception, embryo development, and even pregnancy complications.

✨ Whether you’re trying naturally, navigating IVF, considering egg donation, or seeking a second opinion — this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and real-world insight.

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About the Podcast

Egg Meets Sperm
Because Fertility takes TWO.
Egg Meets Sperm: Because Fertility Takes Two.

Attention: Women and couples in their 30s & 40s, CEOs, high-achieving badasses. If you're struggling to conceive, there is likely a reason. On Egg Meets Sperm, Dr. Aumatma interviews leading experts in fertility & wellness to help you on your journey to parenthood.
Starting Season 3: Dr. Aumatma will also offer a short, informative masterclass. If you want to get answers to your burning questions, send them here: https://www.speakpipe.com/EggMeetsSpermPodcast

This podcast is for you if:
* You are a BADASS - which also means you're a high-achiever, sometimes with a tendency towards wanting control, being a "boss" and carrying the world on your shoulders
* "infertility" makes you feel powerless and hopeless
* You're not sure there's anything you can do to help get your pregnant
* You are seeking alternatives to IVF, IUI, and Ovulation induction
* Your hormones are all over the place
* You have been diagnosed with PCOS, Endometriosis, Unexplained infertility
* You've suffered from Pregnancy loss and were told it's normal
* You and your partner are a power couple that wants to bring an incredible child into this world
* You are into natural & holistic approaches
* You want to do everything in your power to get pregnant
* You have experienced a loss and are ready to take your power back

Let's GO! Let's get you FertileAF so that you can have the family you dream of!

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Aumatma Simmons